Sometimes I wish I didn't like square jawed women so much.
25. July 2008 - 15:38 — drmjr66
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Sometimes I wish I didn't like square jawed women so much. When I would have a crush on a woman with such a jaw shape, and she chose someone else instead of me, I would be more crushed than if it was a woman who didn't have such a jaw shape. It's also the one thing that robs me of contentment and enjoyment of being single, especially being unable to date anyone due to uncontrollable circumstances. But I'm stuck with liking this and I guess I'll have to live with it for the rest of my life, no matter what happens.
Lately, I've been thinking
Lately, I've been thinking about this - It's not uncommon for men to like women's hair, eyes, or legs, which I also like. But I've been wondering why it's the chin and lower jaw of all things that I've always liked since I was 13.
Ok guys, i have my own
Ok guys, i have my own theory...
Its a parafilia,i mean, a simple fetishism..
you find really exiting a girl who can match beauty and strong features, maybe coz you feel "protected", maybe coz you love being the femenine object at least in something,
of course, im not saying you r gay and things like that..
maybe you have delicate features, or you wish you were born with..or a soft personality and once you felt glad about it, and you search that inconscientemente( my english sucks ass, sorry)...
and a strong jaw, square chin or whatever in your couple, brings you the possibilty of satisfy those needs...
im saying this cause there are a lot of pretty and beautiful girls with squared long jaws, but and oval shaped soft face is something very beautiful too, maybe is an archetype of weakness, but no one is perfect and when someone say, squared jaws are a flaw, someone say oval faces are weak...
im sorry again for my english and plz try to analyze my opinion...
saludos..
Francesc
I also have Asperger's
I also have Asperger's syndrome (a high functioning form of autism) and have limited coordination and a vision problem, which makes me bad at sports, contributing to my lack of interest in sports, keeping me from being the athletic outdoorsy type. I have noticed that many square jawed women are athletic and love "the great outdoors", so they like camping, beach, etc. Many such women are attracted to men who like those same things. But being the opposite of me, that's how they attract me.
I am more of an internal thinker, preferring the world of computers, music and languages. I can figure out technical issues with computers and cell phones within seconds. But on the other hand, parties are a time of torment rather than fun for me, especially when I couldn't bring a woman and have to watch the square jawed women make their public display of affection with their significant others. Such parties are hell for me and instead of being thankful I came to put up with that, the people are shocked that I'm not dancing. But what do I have to dance about without a partner, not liking the song, and watching the square jawed women belong to someone else? I mean, I'd just rather avoid those damn parties to begin with. And I don't care how many people go to such parties alone, I refuse to be one of them.
I am getting more furious
I am getting more furious and irate every day, wondering if all the square jawed women in the world are taken. Isn't there one on this whole planet who isn't taken? And if so, where must I go to find her? And if I do find her, how many more excuses must I hear why I can't be the one for her? It's getting old and I am losing patience more and more every day.
And another thing - I don't know which ones tick me off the most, between those who want nothing to do me altogether and those who want to date someone else, but insist on keeping me as their insignificant, wimpy little friend - makes me think of friendship as an abstract 2nd class relationship with no meaning or purpose at all.
I'm sorry I don't mean to
I'm sorry I don't mean to laugh at your pain but your comment is quite funny to me... all the square-jawed women you meet are taken. Hard to find one that is single.
lol
I still wonder why no matter
I still wonder why no matter what I do or say, I still have to be so bad that all the square-jawed women end up choosing someone else instead of me. Why must I even be alive if those women keep choosing someone else? Must life be punishment for me?
I know this sounds cruel,
I know this sounds cruel, but has anyone besides me noticed that many square jawed women are rather stuck up and snobby? Or am I being cynical?
I don't want to like square
I don't want to like square jawed women anymore. I am sick to death of not being good enough for them and I feel like it's a curse to be attracted to them. And it's distracting me, keeping me from caring about anything else.
Ron, honestly you need to
Ron, honestly you need to remove this post.
It sounds so stupid and pathetic. This site is for appreciating a different kind of beauty, not for someone's mental health problems and low self-asteem to become the subject of attention.
A person who whines publicly to the whole world about how he is not getting any love in an attempt to invoke pity will never get love for as long as he lives.
I just think this post brings down the class of this site that such nonsense is being posted.
Persian, now I am really
Persian, now I am really disappointed, disillusioned and irate with you and hurt by your comment. It sounds like the attitude of a high school bully. I thought I could be honest with you and that you cared about me as a human being, but I guess I had another thing coming. I feel betrayed. It is possible to be beautiful on the outside, but ugly on the inside. It is also possible to be both beautiful and intellectual, but uncaring. I don't want to believe this about you.
I once had a conversation with a co-worker, asking her why it's the square jaw of all things I like so much. She told me that God wired me to be attracted to such a shape because He has a lady with such a shape just for me. I've told others about this and they have agreed with her. So if you believe I'll never find love as long as I live, I hope it's because I'll be gone before I wake up tomorrow. The thought of being a single, girlfriend-less guy for a very long life (like the next 50 years) makes me want to vomit and makes me wonder if I am the wrong gender!
Another thing, Persian - I'm not only speaking up for myself, I'm speaking up also for other people who just might have this same issue but are afraid to speak up themselves. If I don't speak up for them, I don't think anyone will. I think part of the purpose of this site is for guys who admire square jawed women but have trouble getting a square jawed girlfriend/wife to empathize with each other. It's not time to throw unsuccessful people and late bloomers to the dogs. As the old Elvis Presley song put it, "don't be cruel to a heart that's true".
It would seem that this is
It would seem that this is simply passion. It has nothing to do with mental health or low self esteem. Passion is like fire, no one could stop it. People who are under passion are sometimes mistakenly perceived as having mental problems or low self esteem. Be that as it may, if passion destroy our life, then its time to call on God to intervene, so we could move on normally with our lives.
Now you're talking business!
Now you're talking business! Have a chair!
These songs express my
These songs express my feelings about square jawed women who aren't available:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XB-VW22_4GE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46qctiIdMPc
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This kind of thought cannot
This kind of thought cannot be tolerated on this site. If this is what's in your head, I suggest you seek psychological help.
I've tried psychologists
I've tried psychologists already, they're no help.
Now I've been wondering
Now I've been wondering about this - could the reason I haven't dated anyone in the last 5+ years be that I'm too picky about wanting a square jawed woman and not settling for anything else?
drmrj would u love a woman
drmrj would u love a woman for what she is?or for her square jaw?
I think if I had a woman who
I think if I had a woman who didn't have that jaw shape, I'd still have a wandering eye for women who do. I don't want to date or marry a woman while having eyes for someone else.