Sometimes I wish I didn't like square jawed women so much. When I would have a crush on a woman with such a jaw shape, and she chose someone else instead of me, I would be more crushed than if it was a woman who didn't have such a jaw shape. It's also the one thing that robs me of contentment and enjoyment of being single, especially being unable to date anyone due to uncontrollable circumstances. But I'm stuck with liking this and I guess I'll have to live with it for the rest of my life, no matter what happens.
Lately, I've been thinking
Lately, I've been thinking about this - It's not uncommon for men to like women's hair, eyes, or legs, which I also like. But I've been wondering why it's the chin and lower jaw of all things that I've always liked since I was 13.
Ok guys, i have my own
Ok guys, i have my own theory...
Its a parafilia,i mean, a simple fetishism..
you find really exiting a girl who can match beauty and strong features, maybe coz you feel "protected", maybe coz you love being the femenine object at least in something,
of course, im not saying you r gay and things like that..
maybe you have delicate features, or you wish you were born with..or a soft personality and once you felt glad about it, and you search that inconscientemente( my english sucks ass, sorry)...
and a strong jaw, square chin or whatever in your couple, brings you the possibilty of satisfy those needs...
im saying this cause there are a lot of pretty and beautiful girls with squared long jaws, but and oval shaped soft face is something very beautiful too, maybe is an archetype of weakness, but no one is perfect and when someone say, squared jaws are a flaw, someone say oval faces are weak...
im sorry again for my english and plz try to analyze my opinion...
saludos..
Francesc
I also have Asperger's
I also have Asperger's syndrome (a high functioning form of autism) and have limited coordination and a vision problem, which makes me bad at sports, contributing to my lack of interest in sports, keeping me from being the athletic outdoorsy type. I have noticed that many square jawed women are athletic and love "the great outdoors", so they like camping, beach, etc. Many such women are attracted to men who like those same things. But being the opposite of me, that's how they attract me.
I am more of an internal thinker, preferring the world of computers, music and languages. I can figure out technical issues with computers and cell phones within seconds. But on the other hand, parties are a time of torment rather than fun for me, especially when I couldn't bring a woman and have to watch the square jawed women make their public display of affection with their significant others. Such parties are hell for me and instead of being thankful I came to put up with that, the people are shocked that I'm not dancing. But what do I have to dance about without a partner, not liking the song, and watching the square jawed women belong to someone else? I mean, I'd just rather avoid those damn parties to begin with. And I don't care how many people go to such parties alone, I refuse to be one of them.
I am getting more furious
I am getting more furious and irate every day, wondering if all the square jawed women in the world are taken. Isn't there one on this whole planet who isn't taken? And if so, where must I go to find her? And if I do find her, how many more excuses must I hear why I can't be the one for her? It's getting old and I am losing patience more and more every day.
And another thing - I don't know which ones tick me off the most, between those who want nothing to do me altogether and those who want to date someone else, but insist on keeping me as their insignificant, wimpy little friend - makes me think of friendship as an abstract 2nd class relationship with no meaning or purpose at all.