Need some Opinions and Some Answers. Am I square-faced?
11. August 2010 - 19:43 — HannaH97
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I need to know, do i have a square face or something else? My friends pick on me about having a bulldog like jaw and I was always considered really ugly. I Google ideas of what pretty people should look like and all i see are heart shpaes and ovals. :( It gets me down. I just want to know what I can do to be pretty and feel confident. So I just want some opinions anythings game. Just comment back please! :) Honest opinions and constructive criticism is appreciated! :)
Hi and welcome to the
Hi and welcome to the site.
You are objectively a beautiful person, period. Your face is quite robust, but not shockingly square. A profile view would help.
You should just get your teeth straightened, which would improve your smile.
Enjoy life, and don't forget that a lot of the most beautiful people have a square jaw.
Hi Hannah, there is nothing
Hi Hannah, there is nothing wrong with how you look. The real issue is your own self image and your level of self consciousness. It is only your belief in these negative thoughts that gives them their potency and influence. If you've reached the point where you've had enough of all of this anxiety and fixation and wish to be free of it, then you have the means to do so. All that you have to do is start looking at the feelings and thoughts that are arising within yourself and the very act of the looking will begin to resolve the issues. They can only continue to reside in you and pull your strings if you continue to turn away from them, rather than cast them into the full light of your attention. Mooji explains the process well in the clip below. If you're ready to give it a go then stick with it, for a few minutes each day. All the best.
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Self concept , is far more
Self concept , is far more important than anything else. To develop one's self image is to accept the truth that you are made in the image of God, and therefore you are beautiful. When you do this, your self image becomes unshakable, and you will only smile, and even pity those who are still ignorant or still deceived about the concept of beauty. Begin now, and continue it daily, until it becomes a habit. Habits are virtues that are difficult change, so to speak. Simply put, it is nothing but a matter of changing habits, by seeing your self not from the image of others, but seeling your self in the image of God. Good luck.
Well said, very good my
Well said, very good my friend. To add one more thing, it is that which you truly are within that is in the image of god, not the specific form of body. You are the awareness that perceives your thoughts, feelings and physical body. You are free from all of them because you are that which is aware of it all. Don't try to imagine what you are, for you are that which is even aware of those imaginings. You are boundless. Not somewhere over the rainbow but here and now.
When your thoughts and feelings arise, you are always there, as the awareness. If you are that which is aware of the thoughts and feelings then you can't actually be the thoughts and feelings. You can untie yourself from them just by realising that you're not them and never were. Their power over you has only been your belief and identification in them.
Whenever your thoughts and feelings feel overwhelming, remind yourself that you're free from them because you are that which is aware of them. You are aware of the one named Hannah and are therefore free from her image also. You're not trapped in a box called me. Remind yourself that you're free from everything observable because you are that which observes it all. Create your own silent, internal mantra out of it if you wish. This will make a habit out of recognising your inner truth, as was mentioned so eloquently by the last poster. You said that you were open to all suggestions Hannah, so allow yourself to hear something different to what you were expecting and give it a genuine go. If you feel something within you trying to shrink away from giving it a chance, then realise that it is not your friend and that it is not in service to your truth. I hope that these words find you well.
oh, come on, you're
oh, come on, you're obviously beautiful. Don't let anybody make you think the opposite. I used to have girls who were way uglier than me tell me I have small eyes...they're obviously jealous and insecure. be a friend, and tell them to stop embarrassing themselves with such low remarks.